How do I see you? [info for newbies]
Welcome. I know it can be confusing to navigate everything. But as long as you’re open minded and willing to follow instructions, I’ll help you navigate the process of meeting me.
As a first timer, there’s some information you should know:
- I screen all clients for my safety. I need your full legal name, preferred contact details and information to make me feel safe. This takes time, so please reach out at least 24 hours in advance if it’s your first time seeing me.
You can view everything I need on my booking page. It’s quite streamlined. - All dates are subject to a deposit. I use deposits to make sure you’re serious about booking with me and to make plans for our time together.
I address the concern more later in my FAQ. - Please don’t message about or allude to any sexual acts through text before we meet. I won’t see you if you do.
- My time should be paid in full before or at the time of meeting.
- I check my emails Mon-Sat at 11am, 3pm, 5pm & 10pm. I don’t check my inbox on Sundays unless you’re already on my calendar. My typical response time can be up to 48 hours.
- Let’s make an intimate and adventurous escape. I want us to enjoy ourselves and forget the rest of the world when we’re together.
Read on if you have more questions or concerns.
Are you vaccinated for COVID-19?
For sure! I’m fully vaccinated and boosted.
My health practices are important to me because I know they keep me, you & the rest of the world safe.
If you prefer, I can get tested before our date as long as the date is confirmed 48 hours beforehand.
Where are you? Where is your incall?
I’m an escort in the Washington, DC area. I can host in Arlington, Alexandria, or DC. I can host in Maryland (e.g. Bethesda, Silver Spring) for $150 extra. Some outcalls require a travel fee.
Please see my calendar for upcoming availability.
I love fly-me-to-you dates (FMTY dates) throughout the USA and worldwide, because I love visiting somewhere novel. Given enough notice, I can visit most countries.
I visit upscale hotels or residencies for outcalls. If I’m hosting, I’ll provide the address a few hours before our date.
How do I pronounce ‘Leijla’?
My name is pronounced Lay-luh. It’s a different spelling of Layla or Leila.
What is a FMTY date? How do I do it?
A FMTY date (fly-me-to-you date) is a date in which you request me to travel to a city of your choice. You live in London? I come to London to see you. Have a conference in San Diego? We’ll meet each other there.
The cost for a FMTY is my base rate + travel costs (transportation and hotel).
The first step for a FMTY date is to reach out to me a) via my contact form or b) with an introductory email. Introductory emails should have screening information plus details of your date request (city, dates, how long is requested).
Once you’re screened and we establish a basic outline for our time together, you’ll make a deposit. The standard deposit is $2,000 USD or the cost of my flight, whichever is higher. After that I like to have complimentary 30-minute video/phone chat so we can get to know each other before we meet and talk about how we’d like our time to pass together. This chat is included in my price.
Until the time of our date we’ll keep in touch to make vacation plans together. If you have any further questions about FMTY dates, I can answer them after your introductory email with screening information.
When are you coming to my city?
See my calendar for where I’m going next. Thought I usually stick to the Washington, DC area… I’m known to travel for work occasionally.
If you book a FMTY date, I’ll visit your city when it’s best for you given enough notice.
I’m often asked to let lovers know when I’m coming to their city/area. If you want to know about my upcoming travel plans, please join my email list or follow me on Twitter.
What’s your ideal date?
My perfect date begins with flirting over a tasting menu or a passionate performance at the theater.
At the risk of sounding cliché, the most fascinating organ is located between our ears. I’m drawn to curiosity, ambition and intellect. Though males tend to grab my eye, I’m attracted to all gender identities (female, non-binary, trans) as long as our minds connect. I’m available to couples at no extra cost.
Will you provide a reference?
If we’ve met in the past 12 months and it went well, you may use me as a reference up to three times. No need to ask permission, just pass email information along. Please don’t share my phone number without my permission.
What’s your cancellation policy?
In-person reservations to cancelled 48 to 24 hours of meeting incur a cancellation fee 50% of my rate. No-call/no shows & reservations cancelled within 24 hours of meeting incur a 100% fee.
A 25% cancellation fee also applies to all dates 24+ hours and FMTY dates, as I have already blocked off time for us and typically declined time with others.
If non-refundable travel expenses were incurred for travel dates, those costs are added to my cancellation fee.
Video chats cancelled within 60 minutes before our chats are subject to a cancellation fee of 50%.
I’ll look out for your cancellation fee within 72 hours. I can accept credit card, debit card, CashApp and Bitcoin.
Do I have to pay a deposit?
Yes. The standard deposit amount is $200 USD, but can increase. A FMTY date deposit is usually $2,000 USD.
All deposits are non-refundable. Deposits and prepayments are transferable to a future meeting up to 6 months from the date of cancellation as long as any non-refundable travel expenses are covered.
I don’t process financial information on my website. All credit/debit card information is processed through a secured PCI compliant third party.
Deposits can be paid electronically with cryptocurrency (Bitcoin preferred), CashApp, debit card and credit card. Please contact me if you wish to pay via crypto or CashApp. I don’t accept PayPal or Venmo.
For Americans: To avoid using your personal debit/credit card, you can buy Mastercard or Visa Vanilla gift card(s) from CVS or Walgreens for a small fee. You can use whatever name and ZIP you want on the payment page.
What payment methods do you accept?
Cash, credit and debit cards, CashApp and crypto.
Cryptocurrencies I accept include Bitcoin, Ether, Nano, and TrueUSD. I will give you information on how to pay me in cryptocurrency. To pay in another cryptocurrency, please use a service like ShapeShift to convert the currency to one I accept. Payment with cryptocurrency must be completed and confirmed prior to our date.
If you want to use credit card in person read below for more information.
Do you accept payment via credit/debit card?
Yes. If you’d like to pay more than the deposit electrically, I need to know before our date.
When you request to pay in full with credit card, you’ll sign an electronic agreement and then pay my invoice. When we meet you’ll present your ID and credit card. The name on your credit card must match the name on your presented government-issued ID.
If you don’t follow these instructions and you can’t pay, the reservation will be considered a last-minute cancellation and with the corresponding cancellation fee.
What’s the best way to spoil you?
Honestly, the best way to spoil me is to book a dinner date or travel date with me. I love visiting new places and experiencing novelty. I have lots of places I’d love to visit!
My second favorite way is to tip me since I’m saving for a big purchase. I can be tipped with cash, CashApp, crypto and OnlyFans. Email me for my CashApp or crypto info. Motorcycle gear can be gifted on my wishlist.
Considering a sweet treat for our date? Dark chocolate, Medjool dates, and fresh berries are my favorite.
Please exercise restraint about gifting me alcohol, candy, and other sweets. While all gifts are appreciated for their generosity, they can’t always be appreciated in the way you intend. I follow a plant-based (vegan) lifestyle and am invested in the health of my body and planet.
Finally, check out my wishlist. Lingerie, fund a photoshoot, donate towards a nonprofit on my wish list, buy a book. If you fund a new photoshoot, you’ll get the privilege of the first peek.
Are you ready to experience me?